Episode 1: Scam Proof Your Loved Ones - Protecting Against Fraud and Elder Abuse
- ABEP Communications Team

- May 27
- 2 min read
Updated: Sep 9
Scam-Proofing Your Loved Ones: Protecting What Matters Most
In today’s digital world, scams are more sophisticated than ever. From fake emails and fraudulent phone calls to online shopping traps and identity theft, it’s not just strangers at risk—our loved ones, especially older family members or those less tech-savvy, are prime targets. Helping them stay informed and alert is one of the best ways we can show our care and protection.
Why Scammers Target Loved Ones
Scammers often prey on trust, kindness, and unfamiliarity with technology. Older adults, for instance, may not recognize phishing emails or spoofed phone numbers. Younger loved ones can also be vulnerable to online scams disguised as social media opportunities or job postings.
The goal of scammers is always the same: to gain access to personal information or money. But with awareness and preparation, you can help safeguard the people you care about most.
5 Ways to Scam-Proof Your Loved Ones
1. Start with Honest Conversations
Talk openly about the reality of scams. Remind your loved ones that anyone can be targeted, and it doesn’t mean they aren’t smart—it means scammers are getting more deceptive. Emphasize that it’s okay to pause and ask questions before acting.
2. Teach the Red Flags
Common warning signs include:
Urgent demands for money or personal details.
Messages claiming “you’ve won” something.
Requests for payment through gift cards or wire transfers.
Phone calls pretending to be from the IRS, Social Security, or tech support.
Encourage them to stop and double-check before responding.
3. Set Up Digital Safety Nets
Install antivirus software and keep devices updated.
Use strong, unique passwords with a password manager.
Enable two-factor authentication on important accounts.
Block suspicious numbers and report spam calls.
These simple tools add an extra layer of security.
4. Be Their “Second Check”
Encourage loved ones to call you before making any unusual payment, sharing personal info, or clicking on unfamiliar links. Knowing they have someone to double-check with reduces the chance of falling for a scam.
5. Keep Resources Handy
Share websites and hotlines where they can verify information or report scams, such as:
FTC’s Consumer Protection: ftc.gov/scams
AARP Fraud Watch Network: aarp.org/money/scams-fraud
Building Confidence, Not Fear
Scam-proofing isn’t about creating paranoia—it’s about empowering your loved ones to feel confident and in control. By fostering awareness, encouraging open communication, and setting up safeguards, you can protect them from financial harm and emotional stress.
After all, the best way to shield your loved ones from scams is to give them the tools, knowledge, and support they need to stand strong against deception.








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